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Year-End Anxiety.

As I was approaching my exams and realising that we are in the last months of the year I was overcome with so much anxiety.
I know it was academic stress but also the thought that 2023 is around the corner and I have more questions than answers.

2022 started off on a very traumatic note for me I was dealing with a lot from the previous year. I spent most of this trying to process all that had happened to me.
I do not know how to describe how this year was for me but it was about taking things in, learning and growth. Growth is not cute or pleasant at all.

I think I met so many versions of myself this year and in the end I chose me.
I wrote this piece for anyone who also might be feeling the same. I know we made vision boards and set goals which all might have not come true or to fruition. If you are a religious or spiritual person this is a reminder that everything happens at God's own timing. The universe will also unfold when it knows that you are ready.

Do not be too hard on yourself and do not focus too much on the 'what could have happened?'
Instead I want you sit down, reflect, on this platform we are big advocates for journaling and writing down. Write what you are most proud of yourself this year. I am proud of myself for being active and for always prioritsing my mental health. I really became my own friend. I challenged my writing. I started an Instagram page for my poetry, this makes me so happy.

As we embark on the festive season do what makes you happy. If you feel lonely and will not be spending time with loved ones, my heart and prayers go out to you.
I am also bringing back Declutter December where we will be cleaning up our spaces and giving to those who are in need.
Till next time, Cheers!
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