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Becoming Her


Good day Love bugs.

Becoming Her is a vision that has been living in my head for so long. I saw the trend on social media and it assured me that I am not crazy.

Becoming Her is about becoming the best version of yourself. That means no longer allowing fear and doubt to control you. But this is more than iced coffee or bubble baths (which I absolutely love). It means coming to terms with reality, it means no longer denying the past. Most importantly,it means doing the work.

The not so glamorous work, going to therapy, changing your diet,changing your habits etc. Remember that God does not workoutside of your will. With all of this do not forget to rest and to do the activities that you love.
As I write this I am in the most hectic period of my life. I took a warm bath yesterday with bath salts and I closed my eyes and tried to envisionmy best possible self. It was a difficult task to embark on. I will not preach perfectiom to you guys or pretend like my life is perfect.
However,it will get better,I promise you.
Till next time,cheers!

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